Great Tips for Kids Cell Phone Safety

 Smartphone, traditional and prepaid cell phone users seem to be getting younger and younger these days. I see more and more kids talking and texting than I would have ever imagined. Really young kids too! So I thought I’d share this article with you. It has great safety tips for kids with cell phones.

 

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According to research, 22 percent of young children own a cell phone (ages 6-9), 60 percent of tweens (ages 10-14), and 84 percent of teens.

Now that it’s back-to-school time, many parents make the decision to arm their kids with cell phones. Parents generally say they do so for safety reasons; they want to be able to reach the child anytime. Cost is also a factor. Cell phone industry experts say phones and family plans are both becoming more affordable. Also, as adults swap out their old devices for newer smart phones, it is easier to pass down a used phone.

But for children, it is all about social life. A Pew study found that half of 12- to 17-year-olds sent at least 50 text messages a day and texted their friends more than they talked to them on the phone or even face to face.

Of course, owning a cell phone comes with possible outside threats. SafetyWeb has 10 tips to help keep your kid safe while using a cell phone:

1. Get Educated and Prepared. Talk to your kids about the dangers and consequences associated with inappropriate cell phone use. Discuss topics including sexting and texting while driving. Make sure you get caught up on the lingo of popular acronyms and initialisms. Ask your kids to save any abusive or problem messages to show an adult.

2. Select Appropriate Phone Features. If your child is under 10, they probably don’t need a phone with unlimited social networking or email capabilities. Likewise, the actual phone itself doesn’t need built-in features like a web browser or video messaging. For a young child, look for basic phones. Review all pre-programmed apps and phone capabilities beforehand.

3. Use Parental Controls. If your child’s cell phone has access to the internet, find out if your service provider offers some sort of parental control feature to which you can subscribe.

4. Limit Usage. Designate time slots for talking — perhaps after homework and chores are completed, or before dinner. Don’t let constant calls interrupt family time. It’s easy for a chatty teen to cuddle up to a phone at bedtime, so check periodically.

5. Consider Monitoring Services. Perhaps your child is older, but you’re still not comfortable with him or her texting and emailing unmonitored. SafetyWeb provides parents with comprehensive alerts and reports on their child’s cell phone calls and text message activity. This allows you to keep track of when they are using the phone (during school hours or late at night), and who they are communicating with most frequently.

6. Wait – Before Answering. Instruct your child not to answer calls or text messages from numbers they don’t recognize. If it is important, the caller will leave a message and then he can decide how to respond. Explain how to block calls from unwanted numbers.

7. Pre-program numbers. To help keep your kids safe, make sure their cell phones have all important phone numbers preprogrammed into it so they can always get a hold of someone if they’re in trouble.

8. Stay Organized. Always keep your child’s cell phone charger in the same place. It’s best to find a central location — like maybe the kitchen counter, or a table by the door. Mark the end of the monthly billing cycle on a calendar to remind her how long those dwindling minutes have to last.

9. Practice Privacy. Tell your teen to use caution when giving out a phone number. Make sure they don’t publicize their number on the Internet or social sites like Facebook.

10. Be Careful of Download Overload. Fun ringtones, games, and backgrounds – oh my! But, be careful. These such features can come with potential bugs or hidden fees.
 
 
 
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The new U by Kotex Tween

U by Kotex Tween

If you are the parent of a girl, you know it is coming. The big P. The talk. Her period, plain and simple. But it’s not plain and simple. As a parent, it can be very hard to talk to our children about puberty and things that affect their bodies. As a child, tween, teen, it can be hard to hear about it. Growing up is hard! For us all!

Kotex has created products for tween girls, U by Kotex Tween,  that make is oh so much easier to have that one particular “talk’ easier to have with our girls. They also have a great site to go along with it. Thanks to the folks at Modern Mom and U by Kotex Tween, I received some nifty gifts to host a party with for girls between the ages of 8 and 12. Yes, you read that right, I said 8. Girls as young as 8 years old are beginning their cycles and it can be a scary time for them and their parents. U by Kotex Tween has a ton of resources on their site including a video (posted below), calendar, etc. And the pads themselves are wonderful. They are the right size for most tween girls smaller frames. The pads have wings which for me are a HUGE must have and the liners are perfect for daily wearing when you’re not totally sure when to expect your actual period. They will keep your daughters clothes protected and give her extra peace of mind. And the designs are so fresh and cute!

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At our party, moms of girls 8-12 and I got together and looked at the products, discussed how to have the talk and related stories of our own first period experience. We decided that since it was a party & the girls were there, we would all have the talk together, right then and there. So we called them in, broke out the Harry & David cookies and the U By Kotex Tween pads and panty liners and info sheets and each of us took turns talking about “monthly bleeding” and how normal it is. We watched the Disney family: Story of menstruation on the computer, then asked the girls if the tips mentioned sounded like good ideas to them. Moms shared their experiences and we let the girls ask questions. In this environment, filled with laughter and fun, our daughters learned all about what to expect and who to talk to and I think they really enjoyed being included in a “grown-up” party.

A party like this is a GREAT way to break the ice and begin the big talks with your children. It sets the stage and allows them to come to you later with any further questions they may have. If you prefer to only have the one-on-one talk, the U by Kotex Tween site can also help with that. The information provided is very down to earth and extremely helpful so I really encourage you to check it out. Then pick a date to have the talk with your daughter. Get mani-pedi’s, go out to a movie or out to eat and just enjoy being together. Make it a day all about her and you together. Here is the video mentioned above:

I didn’t want to post photos pf the moms or their daughters here on the net, as I’m not comfortable putting other peoples pictures on here, but here are some shots of the goodies we received. I’ve included pictures of the boxes of U by Kotex Tween so you know what to look for at the store. They are available at major retailers nationwide including Kmart, Target, Walmart and CVS.

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Products for our party were provided by: Modern Mom and U by Kotex Tween. No monetary compensation was received. All opinions are my own.



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