As a blended family, planning holidays together can seem daunting. With different personalities, parenting styles, and dynamics between step-siblings, it’s easy for tensions to run high. However, with some thoughtful planning and communication, your blended family can have enjoyable, drama-free getaways. Here are some tips to make your holidays stress-free and full of fun family bonding.
Discuss Expectations Beforehand
Before setting off on your holiday, have an open family discussion about expectations. Allow the kids to share what activities they’d enjoy. As parents, share what your goals are, like having quality time together, trying new things, and minimising conflicts. Talk about potential frustrations and how to deal with them. For example, if children are unhappy about sharing a bedroom on holiday, book a large holiday home, Yorkshire with hot tub so everyone has their own space.
Getting everything out in the open prevents misunderstandings later.
Plan Activities for All Ages
Make sure to include activities that appeal to all ages. For younger kids, this may include a zoo outing or miniature golf. Older kids might enjoy shopping, seeing a movie, or hitting the local amusement park. Take museum trips and hiking excursions that provide edutainment. Have relaxing downtime at the pool or beach. Catering events to everyone prevents boredom and restlessness.
Allow Some Free Time
As part of your itinerary, build in some free time for individual interests. For example, during a few hours at the beach, let the teenagers enjoy surfing or sunbathing on their own if they’d prefer. Give younger kids time for sandcastles and exploring tide pools. Meanwhile, parents can stroll down the beach or relax with a book. Giving breathing room prevents the whole group from feeling cooped up.
Share Responsibilities
Get the kids involved by sharing responsibilities appropriate for their ages. Allow older ones to help with navigation or reading maps. Have teens help pack the car. Give younger children small bags to carry. Share cooking duties, setup, and cleanup during meals. Being given important jobs makes kids feel valued and confident.
Maintain Some Routine
Try to stick to your family’s regular meal and bedtimes, even on weekends away. Keeping routines prevents crankiness from hungry or tired children. If you’ll be dining out more, pick restaurants that serve familiar foods to avoid glum faces. Before bed, engage in your regular wind-down routines like stories, brushing teeth, saying goodnight. Familiar patterns are comforting.
Address Problems Quickly and Calmly
If frustrations come up, address them immediately, calmly, and privately if possible. Listen to each child’s perspective about what’s upsetting them. Empathise with their feelings before finding solutions. Remind them how exciting the trip will be and that you want to keep positive vibes going. Your level-headed guidance can turn tears into smiles fast.
With the right mix of planning, communication, flexibility, and creativity, weekend getaways can strengthen the bonds between blended family members. Paying attention to everyone’s needs and wants ensures good times prevail. Keeping a calm, patient tone around any conflicts prevents tension from spiraling. Soon, your weekends will be remembered for their fun adventures and quality time – not drama. With each successful trip, your family will grow closer.
Meg is an author at Cinnamon Hollow. She writes on a variety of topics sharing tips and ideas for daily life.