A 2021 study revealed that about 90% of women don’t feel ‘pretty’ enough. Maybe you’re part of this statistic who don’t feel confident about their appearance. This could be due to a whole host of reasons. Truthfully, your own self-esteem can dwindle if you use others as a yardstick to judge your appearance. Likewise, a generally negative perception of yourself can prevent you from seeing the beauty you possess. It’s worth noting that generally, people see you as more attractive than you see yourself, therefore, make every effort to avoid the habit of seeing yourself in a negative light. With that said, here are some tips to boost your confidence and enable you to appreciate yourself more.
- Avoid comparing yourself to others
It’s not uncommon for people to compare themselves to others. However, this habit can be more harmful than beneficial. With comparison, you will likely juxtapose the positive traits of others with your negative traits. This, in turn, can destroy your self-esteem and self-worth. Moreover, it can trigger unhealthy emotions such as anger, envy, and bitterness, clouding your judgement and other destructive tendencies. You may find yourself hating others and complaining instead of doing something productive. You may even be forced to live a fake life, causing unhappiness. Seeing these disadvantages, you may want to avoid comparing yourself to other people. Instead, focus on your unique features and take pride in knowing that no one is like you. This leads to the next point.
- Embrace your flaws
Indeed, most people negatively view their imperfections. However, embracing your flaws is a great way to avoid unhealthy comparisons. What you deem a problem with your appearance may be attractive to another. On the other hand, focusing so much on these less-than-ideal aspects of your life can cause you to ignore other wonderful traits. Moreover, these imperfections set you apart, so keep this in mind. Therefore, you should embrace your flaws if you haven’t already. As a tip, understand that no one is perfect, and that’s okay.
You should also avoid looking at magazines, celebrities and the media’s portrayal of perfection, as they are unrealistic. Instead, eliminate the need to be perfect and use these flaws to your advantage. For instance, you can flaunt your long legs by rocking a cute vintage dress. Also, gone are the days when birthmarks were frowned upon. These days, many women choose to display theirs, and this gives them more character and uniqueness. One such woman is the model Mariana Mendes. You can take inspiration from these people and embrace your flaws.
- Do what makes you feel beautiful and confident
Most times, the current beauty and fashion trends may not be suitable for your personality. That said, adhering to them for fear of missing out (FOMO) can leave you miserable and uncomfortable, eroding your confidence further. You can avoid this by doing what makes you feel beautiful and confident. While it may not be the latest fad, you will feel more comfortable in your own skin. Aside from this, you can quickly discover your unique personal style. Experts recommend considering your body type before choosing your attire. This way, you can choose options that flatter your figure and make you more attractive. Likewise, try a new hairdo if you’re tired of your current one. For example, you can explore these beautiful ginger hair color ideas if your looking for a bold and fresh new look. Consider investing in a good skincare routine to get clearer and more supple skin. If you love makeup, feel free to apply it; if you don’t, rock your natural face. The goal is to feel beautiful without being pressured by external influences.
- Surround yourself with positive people
The last thing you want is to be around people who put you down constantly with negative comments about your appearance. Their toxic words can drain your confidence, leading to low self-esteem. Worse, you can start believing their words are true. Therefore, avoid these people at all costs. Completely cut them out of your life if possible. Instead, surround yourself with those who love and appreciate you, regardless of your flaws. These people could be your friends or family members, so keep this in mind. You can recognise them by how much they compliment you or uplift your spirits when you feel discouraged. Positive people also have a good sense of humour, so keep them close if they make you laugh constantly.
It’s important to feel beautiful in your own skin, as it increases your confidence. Hopefully, you’ll consider the tips discussed above for the best results.
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Meg is an author at Cinnamon Hollow. She writes on a variety of topics sharing tips and ideas for daily life.