“Our passions are the unique colors on the palette of our spirit. When we feel and lean into the inner ‘Yes!’ of joy, interest, and aliveness there is no telling where it will lead us—if we allow it.” —Alan Vukas
Walt Disney, one of the most beloved figures of all time, is arguably one of the biggest names in the world of animated art. The artist, considered a visionary who changed the world of child entertainment, had been passionate about drawing and storytelling since he was a child. He enjoyed doodling cartoons and sold his first works when he was still at school. Steve Jobs, meanwhile, had a keen interest in electronics and began tinkering with devices from an early age, so it is hardly a surprise that he grew to launch Apple and lead it to great success. If you have children, you may wonder how to help your children find and nurture their passion. The secret lies in exposing them to diverse experiences, so they can “stumble upon” something they feel they were always meant to do.
Help Them Embrace A Growth Mindset
The growth mentality is a concept developed at the commencement of the new millennium by the psychologist Carol Dweck. The latter, who was also a professor, grew curious about why some of her students seemed to grow from challenges while others buckled under pressure. She discovered that her resilient students shared certain characteristics that she came to call the “growth mindset.” It contrasts with a “fixed mindset” in that it involves being open to new experiences, believing that all skills and abilities can be learned, and seeing mistakes as opportunities for growth. When your child believes that they are capable of perfecting practically any skill, they are much more likely to take part in numerous activities, even those they do not believe they “naturally excel” at.
Inspire Them With Real-Life Stories Of Passionate People
Storytelling is a powerful way to connect with people of all ages, and children are no exception. Share a few stories of people who have reached great heights in a sport, technological, or creative pursuit. Choose stories that align with your child’s current interests. For instance, if they are into baseball, read them fascinating stories of famous baseball players’ lives. For instance, Jim Abbott was a Major League pitcher who was born without a right hand and who pulled off a no-hitter, one of the rarest feats in Major League Baseball. Despite his challenges, he enjoyed a great career. Or what about Jim Morriss, a player who achieved his lifelong dream by becoming a rookie pitcher for the Tampa Bay Devil Rays at the age of 35? His career was short-lived but still brilliant and memorable.
Encourage Them To Go Beyond Their Comfort Zone
If your child already knows they love ballet, swimming, or coding, why not invite them to try other activities that are related to their current passions? For instance, if they are great swimmers, they might enjoy expanding their list of water sports by learning to ski, scuba dive, or kite surf. If they love ballet, perhaps they would enjoy signing up for a hip-hop class. You don’t have to break the bank to give your child access to numerous activities, especially during the summer, when they have lots of free time. For instance, many YMCAs offer free dance programs for kids (and kids and parents together) in multiple genres, including Tap, Ballet, Jazz, and Hip Hop.
To help your child find and hone their passion, start by helping them develop a growth mindset. Expose them to a host of activities to boost their chances of finding their perfect fit. Finally, read them stories of people who can inspire them to be their very best.
Meg is an author at Cinnamon Hollow. She writes on a variety of topics sharing tips and ideas for daily life.
